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Martin Gee
Martin Gee

Learning to sit with pain before it becomes behaviour. For the space between trigger and reaction Not a therapist. Just healing out loud.

You’re not chasing them. You’re chasing relief.

Jul 10, 2026

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2 min read

You’re not chasing them. You’re chasing relief.

When someone goes cold, you might think you’re chasing love but sometimes your body is just chasing relief from the panic.

Martin Gee
Martin Gee
Attachment withdrawal is not just “I miss them”

Jul 3, 2026

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3 min read

Attachment withdrawal is not just “I miss them”

Sometimes your mind knows the relationship wasn’t healthy, but your body is still grieving the attachment.

Martin Gee
Martin Gee

The Pause Letter

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